Monday, December 28, 2015

how To deal with heartbreak and still maintain poise

We all have gone through heartbreaks.i bet all of us have gone through heartbreaks and if u have gone through heartbreaks then one day you will face such kind of situation.Ending a relationship is hard, whether it was your decision or the other person’s decision. You may be dealing with painful emotions and want to deal with those feelings as quickly as possible. There are several ways that you can work through your painful emotions and start to move on, such as writing about your feelings, allowing yourself to grieve, and being cautious about rebound relationships. Keep in mind that getting over a breakup takes time and patience. If things don’t seem to get better with time, remember that you can always turn to friends, family, or even a mental health professional for support.Breakups are really difficult especially when you are emotionally attached with someone .you will find yourself in a situation in which you can stop thinking about that person.once i knew a person and i fell for him.eventually things turned out to be ugly.i am going to your agony aunt and tell you how to deal with breakups and still maintain Your poise.you can try the following things
1)try not to think about him:just accept the truth its your head that messed you up.you are temporarily off balance and your distress is due to brain chemistry.it is mistake to heed the voice inside your head that urges you to seek him out.that voice comes from fear and insecurity and isnt the best of you.engage yourself in different activities you can also try the following things:
*blogging
*meeting new people
*act like Kristen Stewart (hahahhaha u should try that coz its easy to act like her)
*make new friends
*wear John Lennon shades
* go clubbing

Get a makeover:A makeover will make  you feel hot and good it will make you feel better about yourself .Just get it right or else you will end up looking FUgly like M
iley cyrus :D ^_^

Distance yourself from him/her : IF you seek contact with him,it will not bring relief ,it only brings shame.Being  close to him is like picking of a scab and make it bleed

Deal with your anger. Feelings of anger occur when we feel we have been wronged or there has been unfair treatment. In a situation where you will not contact your ex-partner, the best way to deal with anger alone is to justchill
  • Take deep breaths and focus on allowing your muscles to relax. Soft music can often help.
Remind yourself of your ex’s negative traits. Focusing on all of the things that you don’t like about your ex can help you to get over the breakup faster. Try making a list of all of the things your ex did that you did not like. For example, maybe your ex often burped loudly after dinner, or made plans without you, or forgot your birthday. List every little thing that bothered you about your ex.
i hope you like this article and i hope it has been useful to you





Thursday, December 24, 2015

how to not care about what others think

we mostly care about what people think.we accept a status quote because everyone does the same around us.eventually our action get molded by what other think of us how do i look?do i look stupid?what are they thinking about me?are they talking  behind my back. just writing that gave me a headache.its dreadful and exhausting.if we care about what people think then we will become their prisoner.it makes a follower and a spineless spectator who take stand for nothing.pleasing people is a dreadful way to live life .today is the last day we live a life dictated by other .today we will not give a damn  about others perception.if you want to stand out then you can do the following things:
1. know yourself: it doesn't matter what others think of you.even if they think  good of you I dont think there is going to be anything different or remarkable.its absolutely essential to understand and value ourself.if u value your  principle and perception then rest will not matter.if u have ur values straight u will have your shit straight .sorry for being offensive Im not used to sugarcoating things

2.Be a straight arrow:never be afraid to tell the truth no matter how difficult it is.be like a straight arrow .always be on point.we cant please everyone.if we please everyone we will become a spineless spectator.spending your life thinking about others perception is a dreadful way to live our life.the world doesn't need one conflict avoider.
3.no body cares:no one really gives a damn about you.when i was young i was worried about what people would think of me now that Im old Im realized they weren't thinking about me..the truth is nobody cares.they will rate you or break you but its up to you how strong you can stay.
4.try random things:now you can try different things which are considered to be awkward or embarrassing or something which is not embarrassing like
*blogging
*getting a pixie cut
*wearing cat eye shades
*dressing like Miley Cyrus


  ahhahahha :D
 i hope you liked my article and remember be brave and dont give a shit to anyone's perception 
wid love ellie
mucha gracias
^_^

Sunday, November 8, 2015

diy spiked headband



Forget looking perfect and conventional this season its time to get the devilmay care attitude look with the comeback of edgy fashion trend.you have to try these cool spiked headband.It will cost you around 450 rs in  retail outlets.but why spend it so much when can make your own
Things you will need
1.plain black headband]
2.spikes
3.super glue

 Follow these steps
 1.take a headband and some studs and spikes of your choice.
 2.put super glue on your studs and stick them on to your headband.
 3.wait for few minutes and your done!!!!1

Diy water ballon flip flops






I’ve been seeing these water balloon flip flops all over the web, for as long as I can remember. But after being so happy with how our our ribbon flip flops turned out, I decided to give these a go. The concept is the same as with the ribbon flip flops, you are basically just tying them onto the strap of the sandal.
Its really easy and effortless and its very inexpensive.anyone can do this and its looks really interesting.Big houses like D&G ,d square etc are sporting this slippers

What You’ll Need
 1. flip flops
 2.120 water balloons

Beginning at one end of the flip flop strap, tie on a water balloon making a double knot at the top. For comfort, be sure that the smooth side of the balloon is touching the foot and the knot is facing upward. Continue tying balloons onto the flip flop until completely covered, alternating the direction of the balloons as you tie. This way you won’t end up with all tops on one side and ends on the other.

Helpful Tips:
Stretch the balloons slightly before tying.
Once you tie the balloon on the strap pull it tight so the balloons appear fluffy.
Be sure to push the balloons close together as you work so that they are nice and tight.
This flip craft will be a little tricky for younger kids, because the balloons are so small. You could easily do this project with larger balloons.
  i hope you liked this post and id really appreciate if u leave a comment on it

Diy Double pearl dior inspired earring



DIY DIOR INSPIRED DOUBLE PEARL EARRINGS
As I mentioned a few days ago, pearls worn in different ways are right up my alley. In honour of the amazing Dior pearl earrings I’ve been seeing everywhere, today I’m going to show you how to DIY a similar style yourself. I worked out they weren’t too hard to make my own using pearl earrings and pearl beads, or get yourself one of these DIY pearl embellishment kits!
things you will need
  • Pearl earrings
  • Matching pearl beads in large size
  • Rubber earring backs
  • Super glue
  • a skewer
                                            put some glue at the end of skewer

Press it into the hole of the pearl bead and Then with your fingers press the rubber earring back into the hole

 

 Press it down hard so it goes all the way in and then leave to dry..Check the hole is clear using the earring back and your done!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i hope you liked this post and let meknow what you think of my work
with love Ellie
mucha gracias ^_^

    Monday, November 2, 2015

    how to get the casual street style




    hey everyone whatsup?? right now i am a big fan of street style.
    i wore my boyfriend jeans along with my lace vans.My lace vans is a DIY.i was really inspired by a Christian Dior RUnaway and i made one.i m also harbouring my favorite dope beanies to add edge to the look.i also wore my favorite boyfriend shirt .i hpe u liked this post plz let me know about your opinion
    mucha gracias
    ^_^

    ur gonna miss me wen im gone




    hey guys whats up?im harbouring 50's look.As we know thtvintage fashion is alll about minimal  so i paired this black plead skirt and white shirt and i added my leather jacket for a flirty look.im a huge comfort freak and thats why i paired my mary janes with the look i hope u liked this  look .leave a comment and let me know
    mucha gracias
    ^_^

    cute nerd HallOWeeN look




    hey people wats up ???on halloween im became the CUte Nerd.This idea is easy and effortless it does nt take much expense .i took my favorite purple plaid shirt to give edge to the look.you can never go wrong with a black tshirt  and i added my nerd glasses to complete the look.u can get this look from your wardrobe i hopeu liked this.plz let me know what you think and leave a comment.bye see ya
    mucha gracias
    ^_^

    Friday, April 3, 2015

    all good things come to an end



    hey guys whats up.im harbouring hi-low skirt and tribal print crop top.hi-low skirts are versatile and i feel confindent in it .my tshirt is from lipsy collecton,my low skirt is from yours fancy store and wedges from local fancy store

    Friday, March 13, 2015

    Forever Young forever panting




    hey Guys iTs been Forever that i dint post anything because i was busy due to work this time i decided to wear this classic cat eye style sunnies with plaid  shirt.i also paired with my favorite pair of skinny jeans and my favourite mustard bag
    my plaid shirt -classic collection (local store)
    cat eye sunnies - getjealous online store
    bag -random shop
    i hope u liked this post .if u like this post then plz let me know
    yours ellie

    Tuesday, February 17, 2015

    never let them underestimate u



    hey Guys how have u been?? lately i havent been able to updatemy blog bcoz i was busy.i love swag becoz it so casual at the same tym its so chic. My varsity  is from young blood collection and shades from online store style syndrome my beanies are from cuckoos nest nep i hope u like this post.leave a comment below bcoz ur opinion matters to me
    wid love ellie
    mucha gracias
    ^_^

    Sunday, February 1, 2015

    i was born that way

    hey gUys im back with a new post.i was gone for sometym bcoz of work im wearing combat jacket from cuckoo's nest nep and my favourite coat from lipsy's collection to beat the chill.i hope u like this look.ps id like to know what you think abt my look coz ur opinion matters a lot to me
    ^_^
    mucha gracias